Jo Farnell recommended I read “Evocative Objects: Things We Think With” (ed Sherry Turkle, MIT Press 2007). I hot-keyed it over to Amazon and ordered it. I’ve only flicked through it a bit, and read the introduction, but felt I needed to record my initial thoughts before I carried on and forgot what I was thinking… this happens a lot, I’m convinced I’ve found the answer to all the world’s problems, but have forgotten the miraculous solution while trying to find a pen.
These are the phrases I’ve jotted down as I read:
“attentive to the details of people’s lives might be considered a vocation”
“made me feel connected”
Objects connect people with other people “serves as a marker of relationship and emotional connection”
“…a dynamic relationship between things and thinking”
“For Freud, when we lose a beloved person or object, we begin a process that if successful, ends in our finding them again, within us. It is, in fact, how we grow and develop as people. When objects are lost, subjects are found. Freud’s language is poetic: ‘the shadow of the object fell upon the ego’”
This little lot of words is almost shouting at me from the page. When I was looking through the objects in my favourite shop last weekend. I started with a visual idea of what I wanted, but as I went through the clothes they spoke to me, I established an emotional attachment to them, something that I had lost and found in myself, either from my parents, my childhood, whatever. THIS is why I chose those particular clothes, and abandoned my original thoughts in favour of them. The shadow of my mother falls upon me as I sew.